The adult
If the child does not want to be beyond safe Hobbitaniya, does not seek to break toys, that is to make discoveries, it is necessary to awaken in him this ability, to TEACH to notice miracles round itself.
Without having begun internal travel of hobbits, the childrens personality will not prepare herself for feats of adult life.
The adult is simply obliged to help, and it means to accept rules of the game, to become the kind wizard, the conductor over this country of fairy tales.
Happens a little inconveniently to play fairy tales when itself already with the head it is shipped in adult affairs.
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